Spoon Your Life with Positive Energy | Emotionally WellBeing | Miss Shalini Tiwari

 I know, we want to do many things in our lives and somehow we make time to do everything we want according to our interests and priorities in life. we  make time schedule by taking that in consideration, let’s take some examples  from our day-to-day life:  We like dancing so, we  will make time for it, we like singing we’ll make time for it , we like writing we’ll make time  and it’s a good thing to do what we like  but I feel, In today’s  time our generation is too fast in making decision what they want to do and what they actually do, they just keep on shifting from one interest to other either we talk about work, things, people and relationships everything is too fast no one wants to take out time and think about what they actually want but they keep on complaining that I wanted this, I wanted that but I ends up  by not getting it. But they never think about what was the reason behind it. Every goal is worth achieving every work is worth doing, every interest is worth pursuing and every relationship is worth keeping. We know why we fail because we haven’t wanted it enough, and with scattered thoughts, we dissipate our energy at wrong places we waste it by walking in the wrong direction and this is the reason behind its failure. And we start blaming the situations that are nor responsible for the things that we didn’t made and achieved, it’s an easier way to escape and avoiding taking responsibility for the decisions we made.

It’s always about how we are using our energy to get it done, how much energy we put is not important at all because most of the time it all gets wasted, But how well we concentrate our energy to work is important always keep this fact in mind. And most of the people who dreamt big and planned bigger and they were energetic too but they failed because they don’t how to use their energies for the execution of their plans.  It’s not important how much resources we have the way we use resources in our development is. And China is the best example of this they didn’t had many natural resources and they also had a very large population,but they have never taken this as disadvantage they focused on the human resources what they had and now we can see they comes under world’s most developed countries  from a small level to a very large scale development in practice.

It’s all about the use of energy most of us lack that focus, that’s the reason we fail. Whatever we do, we should try to do it with our full potential, we shouldn’t have regret about what we didn’t do for the achievement of our goals.  Most of the people who failed and who are successful; There is only one difference, They knew to use their energies in the right direction which others didn’t,  Giving up and blaming other is a good escape but not the successful one.

Just think of the relationships that didn’t worked out in our life, We will get to know the truth that both the people in relationship put their efforts differently, but not appropriately it’s a scattered form of energy, we love that someone but also get jealous feel hatred  for them at the same time for the things that weren’t in our favor.  And at this moment all the positive efforts we have put got canceled out by the negative one that got created by our own insecurities, And it comes in both way the positive energy we have got canceled by the negative one we gained, And we ended up fighting with our partners, our families, our friends. It’s the general rule that affect the efficacy of our energies, misleads our possibilities, arises to be the biggest cause for our work failure, our goals to accomplished, our relationships to be succeeded. Its always easier to give up and leave but holding on and sticking to our goals with continuous effort and energy is the secret of success either in business, career, love, life.

And the possible example that we can see is the relationships of our grandparents and parents, just go and try to sit with them for some moment, we will come to know that even they had so many problems in their relationships, they had fights too, they had arguments too ,but what made them continue that for so many years is their continuous effort and energies to be together  they have putted. And that’s the secret to their relationship the never giving up attitude, and the same thing is stopping us from achieving our goals because we gave up easily and didn’t tried enough to focus our energies for the achievement of our goals.

Walking will not make us to reach our destination; we have to walk in the direction of our destination taking the right steps towards it. There is no secret to success every war is worth winning, just learn how to fight it, well people usually get depressed about the things which they didn’t achieved. but they never look for the reasons why, and who looked for the why’s in every failure are already successful, keeping our eyes wide open and setting our minds free to think over the things always take time to sit and think about what we actually want. Most of the people just keep on doing the things which are not making them excited, they lack the zeal, they lack the focus they need but they keep on doing the things which are just time waste and dissipating their energy level . Having positive attitude is important we should always make a conscious effort to keep our energies positive, people should have craving for our vibes.